On Valentine’s day when love is all around us, I’m wondering if you’re still in love with the business you’re running? When a business starts up there is always a period similar to a ‘honeymoon’ period, when we love everything about being in business. Its fresh, it’s new and exciting and some of the challenges we experience later are no where to be seen on the horizon. (Does that sound familiar with life too?) As we start to develop and grow the business, bringing new people into the mix means new relationships, sometimes conflicts and if we are unable to manage these we find great chunks of our time being eaten up, and as a result our energy levels going down.
As a business leader you have to be the inspiration for the people you lead. You have to know where the business is going and how are you going to get there and how you are going to lead your people and above all re-ignite the passion you experienced when you first started.
So let’s go back to basics…..
1. Identify all the things that you love doing in your business and all the things you hate doing and put these into two lists. Have you simply carried on from when you started the business and still doing some things that someone else could do? Who would be the best person to delegate or outsource to? You need to hand things over to the right people though, otherwise you’ll come unstuck. For example, something that requires a high level of detail needs to go to someone that is patient and already demonstrates they like doing detail. Make sure you retain some of the things you’re really good at and love to do.
2. Go back to the beginning. What were your goals when you started? What have you achieved since then? What are your goals now? Write some new and inspiring goals and share with the people around you.
3. How do you show your gratitude to the people around you? When was the last time you said thank you or even wrote them a note of thanks. When we are able to show gratitude to the people around us, we also start to identify what we’ve also personally achieved. Yes it’s OK to also give yourself a pat on the back for a job well done or even to take that well deserved holiday you’ve been putting off. Try writing a gratitude diary everyday – I guarantee that even on the toughest of days you can find something to write about.
4. Get everybody together in the business and listen to ideas they have that could be introduced to the business. Getting your people inspired and fired up creates a level of energy and activity, which are the two key elements to motivation.
5. Have some FUN in your business. When was the last time you heard laughter, chatter and happiness. What could you do to have more FUN? Share a meal, organize a night at the pub, plan a summer picnic – the list is endless.
Happy Valentine’s Day!







I’m currently enjoying reading “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” and the author Stephen Covey talks about breaking habits from the ‘inside-out’. The reason we fail at breaking poor habits is that often we work at it from the ‘outside-in’, in other words some outside influence is the reminder to us, but because its not our own initial idea or we fail to embrace it, then it soon gets forgotten.
‘I always give the principle of: Begin the day by “Eating That Frog”. It basically says that if the first thing you do in the morning is eat a live frog, then you will have the satisfaction of knowing it is probably the worst thing that is going to happen to you all day long. And your “live frog” is your most important task. Now there are two thoughts to bear in mind. The first one is if you have two frogs to eat, eat the ugliest one first and the second is if you have to eat a frog at all, it doesn’t pay to sit and look at it too long.



